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I've never done this before

I am quite used to training beginners and am happy to train more

Can I set limits?

You can agree limits with your master before meeting. You can also arrange a safe word.

What's a safe word?

A safe word is a word you agree before meeting which you can use to stop things e.g. "cheescake". This means you can get into the role and words like "no" and begging can be ignored and punished. The fun only stops if you say the safe word.

Am I safe?

I am not a rapist. I expect obedience. If I do not get it you will be sent packing. I am an experienced master who has trained several beginners and some have stayed for years. I am used to training women without causing permanent harm. Ideally I want you coming back and reusable so I have no intention of damaging the goods although some bruising and temporary marking should be expected. And you can always agree limits

Can I meet you somewhere safe?

We can meet in a public place, your place or my place. We can meet for coffee and a chat before we start. We can chat on the phone before we meet. You may request what you want prior to meeting.

I'm ugly/fat/old/young/etc.

I do not judge by looks. I judge by obedience. All are welcome to try.

How will I be treated?

Like a sex toy. You are my living vibrator and I will use you for my pleasure.

How should I behave?

Respectfully, politely and showing obedience.

I'm looking for love/a serious relationship. How would that work?

While obviously I can't make promises yet, I have had a number of my slaves become live in or long term. As a longer term relationship things will obviously evolve/adapt. You will not necessarily be a slave 24 hours a day but you will be expected to switch to "slave mode" at my command.

I am for the most part a "normal" guy. I have hobbies and interests; thoughts and feelings. It's just that one of those hobbies is training whores to be obedient. I can be a romantic, affectionate man with those I care about but I decide when you get romance and when you get abuse. At times the relationship may be "normal" with us going out and doing normal things. but when I say the word you give me control over you.

If we get to that point, we can discuss details of what we both want.